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Thursday, 19 November 2009

  • Mr Biswas and the Bad Girls

    I just got home from a Bible Study.  We are reading "Slightly Bad Girls of the Bible."  I guess the minister didn't want us getting any big ideas right off by reading the other more dangerous looking books in the series, you know, "Bad Girls of the Bible" and "Really Bad Girls of the Bible."  There are 20 pages of questions to review after the first chapter of the book.  Was the author seriously thinking a group of women could cover 20 pages of questions in any sort of reasonable amount of time?  We are taking three meetings per chapter.

    Speaking of reading, "How is Mr Biswas?" you ask.  Ah, he has done nothing but move in with his in-laws and then move out again.  Mom finally 'fessed up to giving it to me.

    >> I'm the one who gave you Mr. Biswas.  I got it at the library used
    >> book sale and bought it because it was a literature prize winner.  I
    >> started it four years ago and read half and got dis-interested.  This
    >> summer I decided I'd looked at it long enough and just made myself
    >> finish it.  What's so good about it?  I don't know.  It's pretty sad,
    >> to me.  The poor man works so hard all his life to get ahead and it's
    >> a project in futility.  Is it a metaphor for all of us?  Is there
    >> something there I'm not seeing?  Put it on PBS when you're finished. Mom

    > So should I finish it?  SP

    Well, of course you should finish it.  It's a literature prize winner (I
    forgot which prize, but an important one.) It's good for you to have the
    discipline to do difficult things.    Yes, finish it.  And I'm going
    to finish 100 years of solitude that Derek gave me.  I'm bogged down
    with it and I wonder why Derek thinks it's so wonderful, but I told him
    I'd read it and I will.  In the next two weeks.  However, I'm finding
    that carrying it around with me isn't doing the job.  I may have to open
    the covers. Mom

    So there you have it, I am developing character.  I have about 150 pages left out of maybe 650.  Personally I think the Nobel Prize for Literature should go to those with enough steadfast determination to finish the darn book rather than the author.  I usually finish around two books a week, averaging 5-9 books a month.  November's page is looking pretty bare, empty in fact.  It is going to throw off this year's numbers big time.  I think I will make some sort of reading plan for this year, so I can return books like "Out of Africa" to my mother after what has it been, 15 years?

    I found a reading site on Yahoo, and I am interested to find out what it is all about.  It will probably be a good way to waste precious reading time.

    Currently
    A House for Mr. Biswas
    By V.S. Naipaul
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  • A place for everything

    Something somebody wrote on Xanga made me think that I should share my filing system with you. 

     

    I have a hard time staying ahead of the mountain of papers that come my way through the course of daily life.  I feel like I should keep certain things but what and where?  A boss once told me that if you haven’t looked in a file for a year you should toss the contents.  This seems pretty harsh to me, but I bet his kids will thank him for this when he dies.  Several years ago my husband’s boss gave me $100 so I bought a used four-drawer filing cabinet.  The bottom drawer is full of maps and AAA guides.  I have maps of China and the ocean floor and the moon and public lands of Wyoming and places you might find arrowheads and private lands you can hunt on without asking permission.  “I have a map for that.”

     

    The next drawer is full of owner’s manuals for everything we own, some things we have sold and probably some things we have never owned.  The drawer above that is for our farming business.  I was happy to discover that this end of farming requires keeping a lot fewer papers than the government’s end.  It has folders for our bull’s papers with their names; Mac and Brad, (we name our bulls after the guys we bought them from, you might want to keep that in mind if you sell us a bull) and one entitled “Pets and Vets” where I keep the vaccination records and info on the three different vet offices we use; the one that won’t come out on Saturdays and the one with the cute vet.

     

    The top drawer is reserved for family stuff.  I have folders for each kid I fill with pictures and artwork and their shot records.  That is the idea anyway.  Paul’s folder is pretty much empty and I haven’t added anything to the other kids’ folders for years.  I have one marked “Fun Stuff to Try” which I also haven’t opened in years.  Maybe we should try some fun stuff this winter.  The rest of the files are a hodgepodge of things I should hold on to but am not likely to need.  

     

    When I used to work for the government they would send out these forms every six months that I knew I should keep, but I knew not where.  Finally I made a folder entitled, “Personnel Papers (those one forms they send you).” We were required to maintain about three different passwords which were to change every two or three months.  I still keep my master list of passwords in a folder entitled, “Top Secret Information - Restricted Use.”  I have a “Hate Notes” folder where I file my correspondence with the local post office and our Representative, and a “Love Notes” folder where I put correspondence that makes me happy.  I have a file for “Letters from Grandma” and one called “Useless Junk” which is full of… well at least it is organized.   

Friday, 13 November 2009

  • Two concerts in two weeks, oh my!

    Do you hear "ka-thunk, ka-thunk"?  That sound would be Mozart rolling in his grave.  Today my husband won concert tickets for this evening.  We went to see Bill Engvall the comedian.  My was he funny! PMP!  The acoustics were not nearly so good as at the last venue, but I laughed more.  I got home and the kitten attacked me.  I am going to put a Hannah Montana bandaid on and go to bed.

Wednesday, 11 November 2009

  • Do you think they might be related?

    I don't believe my brother plans to have any children.  That's okay, I had one for him!  Check this out, and don't laugh at the 1976 attire. Okay, you can laugh, it is funny.  My brother would have been four, and Paul is just two.

    scan September 09-15

    For some reason Paul thinks that when you squat to take his picture at his level he should squat too.

Monday, 09 November 2009

  • Birthday 2009

    For my birthday my mother gave me tickets to see Itzhak Perlman in Omaha last Saturday.  If you don’t know who he is you can probably skip this post entirely.   I asked my husband first, but he begged out due to a conflicting football game.  Then I asked my friend Mary, then I asked about six other friends as well as four relatives.  Only one of the eleven had even heard of the man.  All of my friends were busy and my SILs all said, “If you can’t find anyone else who would actually enjoy it, I can go.  If I have to.”  Obviously I need new friends, maybe relatives too.  Thursday I was paging through my address book one more time and ran across Traci.  Her kids are grown and she isn’t a football fan, but she lives well over two hours on the other side of me from Omaha.  I called and asked if she was up for a road trip.  “Sure!”  She took the time to Google Perlman and had all kinds of info for me when I got in her pickup Saturday morning.  

     

    We drove straight to the casinos in Iowa and invested in Iowa’s economy.  I still say Nebraska will never have casinos because we have a “no smoking in public buildings” law.  Whoo Hoo!  I dropped $22 between roulette and penny slots. Then we got all pretty for the show.  We got lost, or at least took a wrong turn everywhere we went, beginning with getting to Omaha.  Traci may never let me navigate again.  Some of them were honest mistakes, and some were…well just mistakes.  We found a parking spot large enough for Traci’s pickup in a garage downtown and we set off in our uncomfortable shoes to find an eatery which was both close and affordable.  We ended up with Asian Fusion.  I figure $13 isn’t too bad for an evening in the big town.  As we left we overheard someone talking about going to the same concert so we followed them right in the front door.

     perlman-1

    I can’t decide if the hall was small or large.  It seemed really small until you looked at how little the people across the room were.  Either way the acoustics were phenomenal.  We had seats in the far back row, and we could hear everything.  We listened to a couple of Mozart pieces then after the intermission as Traci said, the whole band came out and we heard some Bernstein (excellent) and Gershwin (long but good) followed by Schindler’s List (too short) and a couple by some guy named Kreisler.  Perlman only played the second Mozart and the last three pieces, but he was excellent.  Just excellent.

     

    We made it home in time for lunch the next day at a bar where Traci got her hot wings fix.   perlman-4 (this would be the 9-11 flavored wings) Getting some "culture" didn't change her that much.  Later on Sunday my friend Rebecca called and asked what I had done for my birthday, so I told her.  She said, “I love him, he’s great!”  Now I have two friends who know who Perlman is.

     

    And here is an in-focus photo of my costume.USA 2009 342

    Currently
    Itzhak Perlman's Greatest Hits, Vol. 2
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About Me

  • If my parenting style was a weather forecast it would be “Mostly benign negligence with brief periods of intense creativity.”

Places I Want to Visit

Peru, especially Machu Pichu, China, especially north of Hong Kong to see the karsts there, and of course the Great Wall of China, Mongolia, Alaska, Greece, Italy, Germany, Menomonee Falls, WI

Pulse

My Family

Grandpa Daddy, James 21, Janine 19, Mae 6 , Jane 5 , Leo 2 3/4, Paul 15 mos

Plant Challenge

White Eyed Grass, Prairie Ragwort, Rose, Onion, Pale Poppy Mallow, Needle-and-thread, Black Samson, Sensitive Briar, Showy Milkweed, Shell-leaf Penstemon, Leadplant, Scarlet globemallow, Cudweedsagewort, Death camas and Cattail (15 so far)

Books and Authors I Love

A Primate's Memoir by Sapolsky, Life of Pi by Martel, The Speckled Monster by Carrell, Free Range Kids by Skenazy, Lizzie's War by Farrington, Evil Obsession by Nellie Snyder Yost Freakonomics, Sandra Dallas, CJ Box, Alex Kava, Janet Evanovich, Tess Gerritsen...

Books Read From 11-08 Through 11-09

Good in Bed by Weiner, Good Hope Road by Wingate, A Lesson Before Dying by Gaines, Joshua, Under the Lilacs by Alcott, Family Tree by Delinsky, All the Pretty Horses by McCarthy, Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart by Livingston, Twilight by Meyer, The #1 Ladies Detective Agency by McCall Smith, The Lighthouse by James, New Moon by Meyer, Damaged Antels by Buxton, The Tales of Beedle the Bard by Rowling, FAS/FAE Stratagies by Malbin, And Justice There is None by Crombie, A Million Little Pieces by Frey, The Language of Sycamores by Wingate, Open Season by Box, In Plain Sight by Box, The Number One Ladies Detective Agency by McCall Smith, Watch Your Back by Westlake, Blood Trail by Box, Savage Run by Box, The Mommy Diaries, Out of Range by Box, Who Calls Me Beautiful by Franklin, The Teahouse Fire by Avery, Winterkill by Box, Free Fire by Box, Trophy Hunt by Box, Eclipse by Meyer, The Concubine's Children by Chong, Where You Once Belonged by Haruf, Key Lime Pie Murder by Fluke, Listening for Lions by Whelan, The Mysterious Benedict Society by Stewart, The Foreign Correspondent by Furst, Out of Order by Hicks, On the Wings of Heroes by Peck, Moscow Rules by Silva, Time of My Life by Scotch, Cold Fire by Koontz, Breaking Dawn by Meyer, The Other Queen by Gregory, The Keepsake by Gerritsen, Lean Mean Thirteen by Evanovich, Black Like Me by Griffin, Looking for Salvation at the Dairy Queen by Gregg Gilmore, Free Range Kids by Skenazy, Tallgrass by Dallas, Eleven on Top by Evanovich, The Scarlet Letter by Hawthorn, Ghost Riders by McCrumb, Blue Heaven by Box, Bella at Midnight by Stanley, Three Weeks to Say Goodbye by Box, Alice's Tulips by Dallas, Lizzie's War by Farrington, The Pilot's Wife by Shreve, Night Chills by Koontz, The Eyes of Darkness by Koontz, The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Schaffer, Carnegie Libraries Across America by Jones, Carnegie Libraries by Bobinski, Alice by Cordery, We Were the Mulvaneys by Oates, Dewey the Library Cat by Myron, Scarpetta by Cornwell, White Oleander by Fitch, The Black Rose by Due, Finger Lickin' 15 by Evanovich, Lost River by Fulmar, The Romanov Bride by Alexander, Playing for Pizza by Grisholm, New Mercies by Dallas, Daughter of York by Easter Smith, Killing Brittney by Olin, Below Zero by Box, The Surgeon by Gerritson, The Apprentice by Gerritson, Jewel by Lott, The Piano Teacher by Lee, Killing Britney by Olin, Below Zero by Box, New Mercies, Alice's Tulips and The Diary of Mattie Spenser by Dallas, Daughter of York by Easter Smith, Playing for Pizza by Grisholm, The Romanov Bride by Alexander, Lost River by Fulmer, Finger Lickin' by Evanovich, The Black Rose by Due, White Oleander by Fitch, Scarpetta by Cornwell, Dewey the Library Cat by Myron, We Were the Mulvaneys by Oates, Alice Roosevelt Longworth by Cordery, Carnegie Libraries by Bobinski, Carnegie Libraries Across America by Jones, The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Schaffer, The Eyes of Darkness, Night Chills by Koontz, The Pilot's Wife by Shreve, Lizzie's War by Farrington, Daisy Fay and the Miracle Man by Flagg, Exposed and Whitewash by Kava.